How Do I Save My Marriage

ima guy and i want to save it for 1 girl and i hope to find a girl thats saving it for 1 guy…me.

Best Answer: It’s the same as in any other country. It differs, some save themselves for that one person and some don’t. your best bet is to find yourself a good christian girl, no offense, but they tend to be the ones that save themselves..

Good luck dude.

• it is like searching for the one & only virgin sardine in all of the worlds oceans…………….

  good luck buddy.

• It’s as rare as a virgin infested with a sexually transmitted disease.

What do you do if your husband gives 90% of his paycheck to his family and gives you only $50 a week?he loves me and he loves his family but since I’m his wife I am first priorities right?We are broke and recently filing for bankruptcy but his family is wealthy they don’t need our money.Well my problem is I don’t want to lose my husband what can be done?I ask him to give them 50% of his check not 90% and now I am labeled as a gold digger to his family.What to do?

Best Answer: hes married to you .. you should definitily be his first priority.. you need to tell him that you need enough money to survive its not his job to give money to his family they should get money for their own families and not take it form your husband… youre definitly not a gold digger for that.. the family isjust jealous

• Go out, Get a job
  Keep all the money except for like bills, dr visits etc.,
  Even if its just a cashier at mcdonalds
  Tell his Family that you wud like some respect
  If all else fails, leave him and find someone more willing to help you
• That is probably why he is “giving” 90% to his family – to fool the creditors.
• What do you mean, “his family”? You are his family now. Get that through his head or walk. If he’s like that now, he always will be.
• Leave him.

Do you still love and wish you were still married to, or there was hope to stay married to, your (ex) spouse? Or, was/is divorce the right answer and you are/will be happier?
I am happy that my marriage has new hope after thinking it was over. We went all the way up to having the final divorce decree drafted. We both love each other and don’t want the divorce. Now we are going to go to a different marriage counselor and fight for our marriage. I think that if you believe in something and love someone deeply enough, you should never give up hope or trying.

Best Answer: Sounds like you have a chance to pull through…wow…2 tough people…….
Hind sight is 20/20 years later, all the what ifs, and etc.
We all change as we age and mature with life’s experiences and hopefully a marriage can flow along with these changes.
It’s when the sharp shards enter the picture and resolutions cannot be found, whether it be stubbornness, selfishness or whatever and 2 people’s love and care for each other head to the back burner. Then troubles start flourishing like spring flowers, wilting, and drying up and sowing the seeds of even a bigger crop of flowers. Then couples loose the vision of what they originally had that brought them together and things start feeling regretful and become wrathful…..then down the slippery slope to the pit of divorce.
Marriage takes work, and the will of 2 participants to make it work. One sided-ness makes the vehicle lean too far to one side and resentment and negativity begins to grow.
I think most folks today think a marriage is a “perfect thing” and the littlest bump in the road sends them quickly to the divorce court, without the “slightest clue” that this experience and outcome will be far more damaging and devastating then working out simple marriage issues most couples have.
But, sometimes this is the only recourse and it will open your sleepy eyes to what a marriage really “is” if you can be truly honest with yourself.

• happier, but occasionaly I think it would have been nice to retire with the same person……..you married. but if it doesnt work out just move on it will never get any better……
  See my point is that my ex got really lazy and wouldn t wana have sex with me . He would havebeen a nice old man to retire with after I turn 65 but not now. I dont need his ****** up attitude and coldnes.s
• All that you say is simply wonderful. However, please ALWAYS keep in mind…..that it takes 2 to make a marriage work!
• when only one person is working on a relationship, let alone a marriage, it will never work. You only end up exhausted, frustrated, miniscule, to say the least. you start resenting the person you once loved with all of your being, and rebel…
  “fighting” for the marriage will bring victory, only if both parties’ hearts are in it… otherwise, the person who’s solely in the battle, fights in vain.
  hope will be there for a while, and then you start to realise that fairy tales and happily-ever-afters are merely stories. it will take a lot of tears, sleepless nights, self-hate, emptiness and lonliness before you can feel like yourself again.
  And if you’re lucky, you’ll be a stronger person than you were when you met them… and if you’re not, well, then, your therapist will get richer in the process….
• my ex was more interested in booze reliving her teenage yrs and getting on welfare so no i don’t miss her at all
• I was in a very similar situation. I’ve now been divorced almost a year. Based on what you described, I would guess that if you do get divorced, you will be questioning yourself for a long time about whether you did the right thing or could have done something else. I do every day and I miss her every day. Does that mean I made a mistake? I don’t know. I hate the term “tried harder”. I think it’s better to say, “tried something different.” If you really want to work on it, the two of you should be in joint counseling. The separate counseling was the end for us. Try reading “The Road Less Travelled”. Not specifically just for marriage, but for yourself.
• When a relationship is over it is always time to go. The idea of “saving” a marriage is mostly bull. I have been married three times and divorced three times. It is usually the same every time. I think it is better to go separate ways and maybe save some of the friendship,… or not.

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I’ve been struck by the purple lightning ohmgoodness!

watch it~!

You need to have seen the gay storm advertisement first to watch this… but i am curious if the Mormon church really funded the original? i hadn’t seen where the money came from

Best Answer: Yeah, much of the funding for Prop. 8 came from the Mormons.

• lol, i really love his satirizations. .

I am catching a bus to va, on friday to save my marraiage.
I am borrowing money from family,

Me and my husband has been apart for 3 years now.
We had a big fight in september and not communicating at all
So one day I recieve some documents from his lawyer

He wants me to sign a separation agreement
I am refusing because, I still love him very much
We talked last week, really I could still the hate in
his voice.

But we talked, I could not talk to long
because I was at work then he was like bye then
I felt he was trying to reach out, but I was at work

The next day I recieve a email telling me he met
someone else after we had that fight
And he doesnt want to be with me anymore
I believe it was a lie, because he did reach out
to me but I didn’t have time for him

Should I go to VA and talk to him about how
I still love him and long distance relationships
are hard and if he made any mistakes I would
forgive him

I need to have closeure on this matter.

Best Answer: As the wedding singer says “Why do you want to dance with someone who doesnt want to dance with you?”.

Its plainly obvious that your husband doesn’t want to be with you and that he is too cowardly to tell that to you straight so he legally went for it – but he will find time to talk to you because he doesnt want to hurt you anymore than you are hurting now. Not ebcause he loves you – he doesnt Love you – he just doesnt want you to hurt too much.
If you jump on a bus to go and see him will he be there? Does he know you are coming? Are you going to be seen as stalking him?
Yes – long distance relationships are hard so what’s going to happen? Are you gong to come back home and everything will go back to how bad it was?

He’s seeing (to) someone else, you can hear the hate in his voice, and you “Felt” he was trying to reach out (which is soemthing you “Felt” but didnt actually KNOW), and he sends you legal separation documents. How much more closure do you want???

Its obvious that however much you tell him you love him it’s not going to change the fact that he’s not in love with you any more and he wants to get on with his life. Do you realise that you are being selfish in wanting him so much that you want him to give up a part of how he now feels just to make you happy? WHats the long term prospect here??

Leave him alone, save your money, and stay home. Find yourself a new man, someone with whom life won’t be as hard.

• It seems like you put other things before him. If he was reaching out to you when you were at work you should have talked for as long as he needed. You said that he reached out to you, but you didn’t have time for him. Always make time for him. He needs to know that you will be there for him. I think that you really need to go see him. Don’t blame him for everything. I don’t know what all happened, but he might be looking for an apology from you instead of forgivness from you. I hope you can save your marriage.
• he said he has met someone else so let him go he told you he didn’t want to be with you anymore.
• Go for it. A marriage is something to work for.
• I guess you need closure so go and resolve this and if he is already involved with someone else you will have to accept and tell him its time for a divorce. But if he loved you he wouldnt have left you go for 3 years. Good luck