I am a christian, a virgin, and saving myself till marriage. I am wanting a tattoo that symbolizes this. I don’t really want a tattoo that is too big or anything.. but yea any ideas??
Best Answer: First of all, do you plan on never getting married b/c tattoos are permanent.
Second, isn’t getting a tattoo considered “desecrating your body” by most religions?
- i am a christian, and i wouldn’t say that getting a tattoo is against my religion. other religions it definately is, and i guess it could depend on what type of christian you are – but i am a catholic and i have been told by my priest that it does not state in the Bible that tattoos are forbidden – but the Bible does say to treat your body well and to keep it pure, so maybe it conflicts with this. i think it is a personal thing – if you feel it doesn’t conflict with your beliefs, especially if ur getting the tattoo BECAUSE of ur religion (i have a cross and i don’t see how that can be wrong in the eyes of God!) anyway about your tattoo!! i think a quote from the Bible would be very nice, maybe on ur wrist?? but i would think carefully about what scripture to use – first think about ur true reason to keep your virginity and then find scripture to match- if u get a tattoo without full meaning to u, u will probably end up not liking it, even if it is 10 years down the road. a tattoo is permanent, so make sure it says (even if u dont get words) what u want it to say. a quote about staying marrying to avoid ‘burning in lust’ for example (corinthians 7:8-9), probably wouldn’t suit ur reason very well! maybe ‘whatever is pure, let your mind dwell on these things’. or ‘who shall ascend into the hill of the Lord? he that hath clean hands and a pure heart’.
- AHHHHHHHH!!! OMG I just got this done a week ago, anyways. I got my purity tat of a purple and yellow bumblebee and i had two wings included; one that said virginity and the second wing will get filled with the name of my first child. mine is on my pelvic bone and I am sooo happy that my mom let me get mine, and actually it was really hard to convince her since shes all, god didn’t make man to put ink in our bodies, then I came back with a scripture that actually stated that the bible partakes in spiritual modification, i.e. tattoos and piercings, and she was soooo freakin speechless.
Hope this freakin helps and good luck with choosing your tat
- If you are saving yourself for marriage, then aren’t you religious? If so, isn’t getting tattooed against your religion?
- Maybe a tattoo of a purity ring or a snowflake (I’m pretty sure snowflakes symbolise purity but you might want to check that on google).
- How about a Christianity fish, or white dove (Means pure and complete with love), or lotus (Purity). Let us know what you pick please.
- a cherry with a promise ring over it like a halo
- How about a chastity belt?
- A glow in the dark tattoo! Google it
- “No ******* till I commit.”
- get a penis with a censor sign through it.
- uhmmm a small cross on your finger would be cute
- i thnk no need for a tatoo
i am even virgn
I have asked this question before and I want to continue that discussion to find out what do you think about my wife based on this scenario….my wife always fight with me this way.
She always expect gift from me in all occasion like B’Day, Anniversary, mothers day etc…The day before this year mother’s day she asked me if I bought any gifts for her behalf of my kids. I said no. I told her I can give you money & you can buy your self because you don’t like my gift and you fight with me. She said no. I need the gift from you so I bought 3 t-shirts/tops for her. She opened it, take a look and throw on the floor saying that I don’t like any one and she said you buy this because of less money and you knew that I don’t like it so you are going to return the store…after that she keep talking bad things to me…she cancel our dinner plan. She talks bad about my parents. I told her sorry so many times. She said because of marriage with me she destroyed her life. She is normal after 2 days.
Best Answer: Whoa!—she is really mental. Maybe she has serious hormonal problems and needs to go to a doctor right now. But, whatever her choice she cannot continually make the choice to treat you like her pet. You have to set boundaries with her saying something like if you continue to speak to me in a hateful way…..I will leave the room or leave the party or leave the house for a while until you can speak to me as your beloved and not a dog. It is not okay for you to continually have to accept to live this way. Please get counseling.
- if you have no kids . . . get OUT. if you DO or it’s been a long marriage, leave the complainer at home and go out saying you work late. Go to movies, date other women, whatever you like to do but never be home. Let her sit and ROT at home, no divorce, no husband, no friend, just SIT alone. You go have fun and enjoy your life.
- Look up Gary Smalley for his marriage seminars. He has videos, books, etc.
Men need to learn that women are wired up different in many ways. They need loving, attention, sacrifice, a lot of things. What do they do for you? Try it and find out.
- she sounds spoiled rotten period. nothing your gonna do will ever be ok, well unless you win the lottery and have indefinite resources for her.
- Could she be Bipolar? Maybe she should see a doctor. My best friends husband was llike that and he was bipolar.
- You want to save that. Good luck. Sounds to me like you cant satisfy that women no way no how. Does she buy for you ?
- Did you do something in the past that may make her act like this?
- It just might be that your wife has serious anger issues she needs help with, but after reading your post again, she may be suffering a type of depression or other mental health problem. If she’s at the age where menopause might be starting (which can cause behavior like this) you need to get her to agree to see a doctor. If she refuses then go see your own doctor and voice your concerns for her. This kind of behavior can escalate into physical arguements and you dont want that.
- She is greedy and spoiled.
Tell her that you will never buy her a present again.
Take the kids to a craft store or work with them at home and have them make her a gift. (ie. A t-shirt that the kids paint and put their hand prints on, a hand painted dish, cards that they drew, etc…)
From now on she can have a bouquet of flowers fro mthe kids with their home-made gifts.
On her birthday and other holidays…buy her a bouquet of flowers and a gift card (ie. $20.00 gift card to salon, store she likes).
Until she stops acting like a selfish witch…she deserves to get the minimum.
Best wishes
I’ve been married for 7 years, and I have 3 kids (1 from a previous marriage). Our marriage has been failing miserably. I’m too controlling (He cheated on me; so I don’t trust him at all), and he’s taking to constantly lying and manipulating me. I knew that the ways things were, it wasn’t going to work. But neither of us seemed to want to change for the good of the marriage.
Three weeks ago, he took off with our 2 young children and refused all contact with me for 9 days. I felt forced to file for divorce and I was able to get emergency custody of my kids.
Since this has occurred, he’s been living with his mom. I’d like to keep my family together by going to counseling. He seems to be interested in it as well, but ONLY if he continues to live with his mom. He says it’s just putting all the stress back into place by coming back to live with his family.
We’ve got a court date set up in 3 weeks concerning custody of the 2 kids and the start of the dissolution of our marriage.
At this point I’m not sure if continuing in the marriage is really worth it, but I hate to tear my family apart. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
Best Answer: Get the temporary cutody agreement worked out with the temproary seperation and go to counseling. If it doesn’t work out, get a divorce before things get work.
- if you did all you think you can do to save your marriage,and that you all have more mad days than happy ones then i say,’ more on,’ if he ain’t willing to meet you halfway on the things that need to be address in your marriage well so be it, it take two,too make it work,and by the way living with mama ain’t help either!!
- Continue with the divorce, he cheated, the marriage is lost. The best thing you can do now is try and salvage anything and support your kids.
- a marriage is never lost no matter what if you are willing to work it out with the other. It takes two to work it out though of course. I would say try to work it out.
- I definitely recommend the counseling if you still have feelings for him.
- Ephesians 5 is a good place to start. But if you knew Jesus and he knew Jesus, you could get the best answer to all or your questions yu would have.
- You can insist all you want, but if you’re controlling and he’s finally made this move….well the more you insist the more the answer is going to be no.
My best friend never cheated, but his wife is very domineering and bossy and nagging. It’s funny he can run mhis own business with 25 empolyees anwering to him. He runs a very tight ship, but when he gets home she treats him like he’s twelve again. When he’s mad, he’s immature, when she’s mad it’s justified. I think it’s over.
I mean I know ‘virginity’.. but what exactly are you saving. ids it just the experience of sex or are you saving everything… like make outs and all?
Best Answer: save myself from a life contract (marriage)
we are having a lot of issues a 1 hour ago i put a question about the issues we where having. I want to know technics that i can start doing that can help my marriage. Also i want to hear of people who has got counseling and know how much did it help?
Best Answer: It takes two to make a relationship work. One person cannot do it all. One person cannot carry the burden for both. One person does not make all the mistakes. One person cannot fight by themselves. Counselling may help but thats if you can find the right one. Its hard to stand back from a situation and decide the problems and solutions to help a relationship. But thats what you need to do. The biggest mistake I see with marriages is that people get this “no matter what” philosphy, its wrong. Relationships need barriers. Each must carry his or her own part of the relationship. Behaviors must be better than what you would treat strangers. Although, we usually treat strangers with more respect. Try looking at your relationship with new eyes, what do you need to be different. What does your partner need different? Alot of times, the fights are not actually about what they should really be about. Good luck.
